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What to Expect During the Divorce Process

If you have never gone through a divorce, you might not know what to expect during this inherently emotional process. While no two divorces are alike, there are some things you can expect to happen, especially if your case ends up going through litigation. With a little more clarity and insight, you can navigate this situation with more realistic expectations and ease.

Below are some things you can expect to experience during the process of your divorce case:

  • Court is nothing like what you see on television: When you watch a courtroom drama, you have to keep in mind that divorce is nothing like what you see portrayed on the screen. The reality is that divorce litigation is a slow process and many of its complexities are not captured in TV shows or movies.
  • You might feel like you are at a disadvantage: Generally, both spouses will end up feeling like they are at a disadvantage. The petitioning spouse might feel like the process is not moving fast enough while the other spouse might feel like he or she is being dragged along. If the divorce took you by surprise, you might feel even more overwhelmed and unprepared.
  • Your dislike for your former spouse might be hard to hide sometimes: If you have children, you are going to have to try to set aside your dislike for your ex-spouse. The last thing you want to do is affect their relationship with their parent, regardless of how you might feel about him or her. At times, this might seem near impossible to do, but instead of voicing your anger and frustration around your children, consider therapy or venting to a close friend.
  • You might feel like a failure: You can expect your divorce to make you feel like a failure. You might also feel like you wasted a lot of time on something that ultimately did not work. Do not let these emotions take you for a ride and remember that, though it is painful, these are not unusual feelings to have. Find a healthy outlet for them instead of wallowing in it.
  • Your children will be affected: No matter how well you handle it, a divorce will always impact your children. Instead of trying to pretend that you can stop this from happening, focus on trying to help them cope with the inevitable changes and encourage a continued relationship with their other parent.
  • You are going to make some mistakes: With a divorce attorney, you can avoid making legal mistakes, but you can still expect to make some parenting or dating mistakes. The important thing is to be able to learn from them and to become a stronger, more self-aware person.

Divorce Attorneys in Illinois

If you have decided to move forward with a divorce, you will need an attorney on your side who can effectively guide you through it and protect your interests. At Wakenight & Associates, P.C., our divorce attorneys in Illinois are dedicated to providing the advice and skilled legal guidance you need to navigate the law, the courts, and any unforeseen obstacles you might encounter.

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