Your attorney has a very difficult job to do. On one hand, they are a uniquely
qualified individual who has the skill and experience to handle complex
divorce proceedings, but simultaneously they must be able to provide reliable
and personalized counsel that is sensitive to their clients’ needs.
Because of the gravity of this task, it is important to help your lawyer
whenever possible. While you may not necessarily be able to create a legal
path like your attorney does, there are still some smaller but equally
important things you can do in order to help your attorney better represent
you. Additionally, helping your attorney in this way throughout the process
may be able to help them achieve a case result that will make you happier.
Here are three ways you can help your lawyer with your case.
Prepare for Meetings
Whenever you have a meeting, either with your attorney an appointment in
divorce court, it is important to make sure you prepare properly. When
your attorney requests that you bring something, such as financial records
or a possession list, make sure that you bring it in. Going the extra
step and organizing it for easy research can benefit your attorney even
further by enabling them to gather the information they need easier. This
can expedite your case as well, allowing you to come to a conclusion faster.
Likewise, your attorney will also appreciate you being respectful of their
time, as an unprepared client generally wastes the time of everyone involved
in the case.
Take your Attorney’s Advice
Your attorney is not only a representative, but also an advisor. While
you are ultimately the one in charge of your divorce and should have full
command of what you choose to pursue, listening to what your attorney
says and taking it to heart can set realistic expectations for your case.
No reputable attorney is going to guide you down a path towards a result
that will leave you unhappy, but when they tell you that your initial
goals may not be ideal, then take that advice to heart. Those who listen
to their lawyer are often much happier with their end results, knowing
that the terms of their divorce are fair and properly negotiated.
Make an Effort with your Ex
Your attorney’s job is to represent and guide you through your case,
but a divorce with a happy result is heavily dependent on you and your
spouse reaching a mutually-beneficial separation agreement. That means
both of you have to be comfortable with the provisions of your agreement,
including things like spousal support, child custody, and property division.
Coming to this agreement takes a lot of work on the part of both you and
your attorney. Your attorney’s job is to help ensure the agreement
remains fair, but your job is to really try to cooperate with your ex
to come to an agreement to begin with.
If you’re in need of reputable counsel and representation for your
divorce, contact the skilled Illinois divorce lawyers at
Wakenight & Associates, P.C. today. Our team of reputable and experienced attorneys strive to provide
our clients with legal advice that is tailored to their individual needs.
We understand that no two divorces are alike and each one needs a customized
plan to ultimately lead to full client satisfaction. We have three offices
throughout the state to provide you with convenient and local in-person
meetings and representation.
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